Friday, June 7, 2013

Week One in Addis Ababa


"I use to think I could shape the circumstances around me, but now I know that God uses circumstances to shape me" 
Bob Goff,  Love Does 2012

The past month has been filled with fun for us!  We left Seattle on May 17th and spent the next week with two of Sean's brother's families, and his parents on a white sand beach in Alabama.  Thanks to Kyle and Elyssa's planning, our family got a much needed break and vacation before we started our new life in Addis. Looking back this was SO wonderful because we got Sean all to ourselves without any distractions from work, or the time it takes to do the necessary tasks of moving internationally.  Also we really didn't think about all the stresses of moving, what to pack, what to bring, what to leave, etc.  All of this had been decided so we just got to play at the beach and the pool for a week and watch our kids enjoy their cousins.  We then spent a few more days at our friend's the Dixons in Atlanta who were nice enough to let us stay at their house.  They entertained our kids while we did last minute errands, as I remembered all the things I had forgotten.  There is always one more thing you can squeeze in your luggage when you are moving internationally and know that it will be a long time until you see a target or a safeway again!

Our 36 hour layover in Amsterdam
A week ago we arrived here, jet legged, tired and probably feeling a bit unsure of what we were getting ourselves into, we were greeted by World Vision staff who helped us collect our 11 of 14 bags that arrived.  Sean's diplomatic ID, allowed us to enter the country without even going through customs.  I was glad not to have to explain why I was bringing in 15 lbs of cheddar cheese:)  We were greeted by the warm smiles of the beautiful Ethiopian people and words of praise, recognizing God's faithfulness in getting us here safely.  I played redlight greenlight with the boys while Sean spoke to the airlines about our lost bags.  The boys were exhausted after not sleeping much the past three days.  We have since received two of the three bags back.  Luke's action packer has not arrived, with his favorite animals and toys, many that he's slept with since he was a baby. Also all his new toys from the birthday party we had for him before we left.  I am still praying it arrives as he is my one child who loves playing inside with his toys!

We are currently staying at a hotel where we eat most meals out as we do not have a kitchen.  There is only one twin bed but they all fight over who gets to sleep on the floor so they don't seem to mind:)  There is a ton of space for the kids to run and a playground for them to play  at outside though which is wonderful.  We haven't unpacked any toys except a football, but the kids are having just as much fun collecting rocks, bugs and pine cones, trying to catch butterflies and moths in their water bottles, and playing jump rope with vines. It has been very adequate but not something we would want to stay in for long so we knew we needed to either move into a place that had a kitchen or find a home very quickly.
Teaching Keziah the intricacies of outdoor play 

As typical of my husband he hit the ground running and with the help of the faithful World Vision staff he has already gotten his license and we have a temporary car to use from WV until we purchase one of our own.  He has gotten a new iPhone and I have 3G internet and a local number on my phone.  We loved the first house that we looked at and did not find the other 4 we looked at suitable at all for our needs so we jumped on the first house and we move in late next week!  Yesterday I went shopping for temporary basic furniture to use until our things arrive.  God is faithful and I am learning to trust him more each day.  The less I strive to control, it seems, the more peace I experience.  Things take longer than expected here and usually don't happen on the day we think they will, but we just have to trust they will happen, and eventually they do...

Caleb and Eli have noticed that there are not many people with peach skin here.  In fact the first thing Caleb (who is more sensitive to this subject) said when we arrived in Nairobi  was "Mom, that man has brown skin like me", I think he meant, all the people here have brown skin like me:)   I think they really like it, they seem somehow more confident already.  I like it too.  It feels like it is about time that they are not the only brown boys in the room.  Now Luke and Keziah are the only ones with white skin at church and most other places.  But they get lots of positive attention.  One man told me this week, "I am sorry for the stares of my children, we have never seen a baby with white skin before".

So we have a long way to go; A language to learn, relationships to build, staff to hire, learn from and love on, ministry opportunities to seek out.  But our adventure has begun well and it feels like the foundations are being set in place for us to settle here.


4 comments:

  1. Hip Hip hooray. You made it. Great work mama.

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  2. Rachel, I so love these updates. I was just thinking about your family today! Please email me your new address when you can so I can send you some good old fashioned snail mail! It sounds like you are adjusting well, and it will be a great experience for the kids all around! You are such a good mom. I do not know if I could handle cranky, tired kids, tired mom and dad, AND still have been fun enough to play red light, green light!

    I am not good at remembering to pray for people every day, but I had saved your Christmas card, along with another picture card from a different friend. I cut out the family photos and put them on a message board in my kitchen. Now I can remember to pray for your families every day!

    :) :) :) *miss you* ((hugs)) :) :) :)

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  3. We know this is just the beginning of the wonderful plan God is unfolding before you.We are praying daily for your peace in Christ as you transition..each one. Remember to laugh at the differences...it's not bad, just different. Don't take yourself too seriously and cherish how precious your sleeping children are!! I love that Caleb noticed the color change in your world and you will see it's just the beginning to a new worldview for you all! God bless you and we hope and pray this home is a wonderful new nest for you to settle and call home. Hope we can visit someday:) Aunt Katie for all

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  4. Hi Rachel,
    I discovered Your blog(s) by chance. What a story! We have been back to Sweden for a few days now (ie all four of us!) and life has never been better. Scandinavian summer does it best to welcome our new family member!
    Please send our regards to Eli, Caleb and Luke and thank them for saving their last ice cream for our son.
    Yours,
    Peter and Kristin

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